What Smart Guys Should Never do to Win a Woman's Love

You are worried that you cannot attract women despite all your
efforts. You feel that no matter what you do you are not able to set
the right impression and always end up either getting rejected or
dumped. Don't waste your time in envy of guys who are successful with
women, have you tried to find out what you are doing wrong? it might
be of help. Here are some of the most disastrous mistakes that men
make around women:

ACTING LIKE HER SERVANT
You do not know how to think, feel or behave around her and thus end
up looking like a blundering idiot at all times. Women don't
appreciate guys who behave like their slaves and will never hang out
leave alone be with such a person for too long. If you want to be her
servant, why don't you get employment as one. If not, why not get a
grip of yourself and be in control.

APPEARING TOO DESPERATE
One of the worst thing you will do is pestering a woman that shows no
interest in you. When you feel that a woman is not interested in you,
you sit down and begin to "explain" to her and try to convince her why
you should be together. You are giving her more reason for her to walk
away because you are giving her the impression that you are desperate.
You cannot convince a woman to love you. When she says NO, just walk
away.

ALWAYS SEEKING HER APPROVAL
you must not get her approval for everything you do or say just
because you want to please her. You are giving her the impression that
you have no mind of your own and have a very low self esteem. Both are
not attractive qualities.

TRYING TO BUY HER LOVE
The worst thing that you can do is try to buy a woman's affection.
When you do so you send out a signal that you are a manipulative and
insecure person who only uses money to buy what he cannot achieve.
Affection cannot be bought it has to be earned.

EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS TOO SOON
You just met her, she agreed to go out with you on a date. You now get
the feeling that she has fallen for you and you just express your
feelings so soon. That is another desperate move. You give her the
impression that you want to tie her down to you as soon as you can and
second, you put unnecessary amount of pressure on her to decide if she
likes you or not. Learn to enjoy the relationship and give her some
space. When the time is right you will know what to do.

BRAGGING
Another extreme is when men begin to brag too much about their
accomplishments and are disrespectful towards women. Being masculine
does not mean being offensive and gross.